I was in a big house and the owner threw a party like those high school americana parties in movies. The girl that owned the house let me stay and live in one of the rooms, and that made me feel safe and relieved. There was lots of art and cool hipster jewelry. At some point I gave my earrings to her while I had a shower, and I have these earrings in real life for many years, they are zwarowski. I thought the earrings were lost for a brief moment because the girl didnt remember where she put them, but I was happy when I found the earrings where the other jewelry was. The house was very big but quite old. With many rooms, but felt like the inside of a medieval castle with aumptuous but old furniture, and the walls and floor were quite old and stained. We started making a few videos and then this guy whom I worked with, and had an emotional affair a few months ago in real life, but we never developed the relationship further because he is married, shows at the end of the dream. He is an actor and director in real life and came to help us in making those videos right before I woke up.
This dream could potentially represent a desire for safety, security, and comfort in your life. The party atmosphere and the large, old house may represent a feeling of nostalgia or a desire for a sense of community. The art and hipster jewelry could symbolize a desire for individuality and self-expression. The lost earrings and subsequent relief upon finding them may represent a feeling of loss or instability in your waking life, but ultimately feeling a sense of relief and security.
The appearance of the guy you had an emotional affair with could be representative of unresolved feelings or desires in your waking life. The fact that he is an actor and director could represent a desire for creativity or exploration in your life.
Overall, this dream may be pointing to a desire for stability, security, and self-expression, as well as a potential need to explore and express your creative side.